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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Because Melissa's pictures are always so pretty...

We had a delightful string of visitors last week, including Melissa S., JJ and Melissa M. While I failed to take any pictures of any of this (thus living up to my likely title as Worst Blogger Ever), Melissa once again perfectly captured the girls' personalities when she was here on Friday. I love how she always has a way of catching them while they're making expressions they always make but that I see so often that I never even think about it. Then when I'm looking at the pictures I'm all, "Ohhh, how cute. That's a typical [insert baby name] face alright." Does that make any sense? So basically I'm in love with any pictures she ever takes of the girls. Here's the latest round, just for fun:

Tamsie

Typical T face for sure

Probably talking about bubbles

Probably pointing at Melissa and saying "Aunt Mo!!"

Evangelyn

Girl loves her yellow bows. Too bad she just destroyed both of them in her exuberance over the weekend. : /

T


Smiley T with E climbing the fence in the background

That's a big bottle of bubble solution on the rail.

Running and screaming at the same time... a favorite pastime among their set







Bubbles with Amma




Racing. You should know our current furniture layout is not designed for aesthetics but to give them maximal play space and to keep them from wandering off the deck. Because I'm sure you were wondering. :)






I think these pictures say a lot more about these girls' fun little personalities than I can even put into words. Thanks, Melissa!

Monday, May 13, 2013

Happy 19-Month Birthday, T&E!!! / Mother's Day / Other Adventures

T's on the left and E's on the right. NICU bears are wherever. If you know anything about baby signs, yes, E is looking concerned and asking for "more!" in this picture!
Dear Tamsie and Evangelyn,

Welcome to 19 months! I know I say this every time, but moderately acceptable pictures with the two of you are pretty hard to come by these days, so I hope you're OK with the ones I managed to get. You're a nonstop blur of activity, so basically the only way to get you to sit remotely still is to entice you with food -- thus the picnic snack on the deck. The only downside to this is that you look pretty desperate and intense in most of the pictures, because you were looking up to your Dad, who was holding the Goldfish box, for more. Alas. 
"Come on, Dad. I know you can be faster dealing out those Goldfish."
Both of you have grown so much this past month! As always, from day to day things seem about the same, but that's what I love about making myself do these posts: I'm forced to see just how far you've come in the past month! I mean I sure haven't come that far in the past month, so I personally find it all most impressive! ;)
Our best attempt at a Mother's Day 2013 picture with my sweet mama. In a bizarre twist, Tamsie and I are both making the same odd expression with our eyes in this picture, and it's actually one I've never before seen either of us make. For the record, E is pointing at the light on the porch thanks to my desperate attempt to get her to look up.
- For starters, you're WAY CUDDLY. Seriously. Where did this come from?! You're still just as busy as ever, but now you want to cuddle too. I dunno, maybe it's just with your dad and me? But still, it's a dramatic reversal from anything we've seen in a while. You even fight over who gets to sit in my lap. Whenever that happens, of course I make room for both of you, but then you can't stand to share, so it is a guaranteed drama-fest every time.

E's face in this one is funny, but I'm also trying to showcase the back of T's hair here. I don't know how or why this happens, but I can, with great effort, comb out all the tangles back here, and within five minutes it's all matted all over again! E's is the same. They have some crazy tangle-prone hair, but only in the back. The front is totally manageable. (Yeah, yeah, business in the front... I know you're thinking it!)
- You're also WAY HILARIOUS. We're always laughing about something or another you're saying or doing. You constantly keep us entertained.
Spontaneous giggles from E
- You also keep each other entertained. Just today you were sitting in your high chairs after lunch and I was reading to you. In the middle of the story, you launched into these great big belly laughs. At first, I started feeling all smug about my storytelling abilities. Then I looked up, and you were doing something goofy with your hands and copying each other -- I can't even describe it, but you just thought it was hilarious! Turns out you weren't laughing at me at all! ;)
Same expression.
- Your communication skills improve every day. You learn new words every day, and then you say them over and over and over. Your favorite word currently is "escalator," which you learned a few weeks ago at the mall or maybe from hearing Corduroy. Then you became enamored with the ones at Opryland, and so we have been known to take you to the mall just to let you ride the famed escalators you talk about all the time!
E
- That said, there are hilarious communication breakdowns at times. For the latest example, we could not at all figure out why you started saying "apple sauce" whenever you wanted help with something. If you want us to open a box, you hand it to us and say, "Apple sauce." If you want us to help you up onto the couch, you reach out your arms and say, "Apple sauce." FINALLY today I figured it out. I've been trying to get you to say "open this please" when you want me to open a box for you. Somehow this has morphed from "open please" to "apple sauce." You're also still not fully sure what "open"means, so now you use the expression any time you need any kind of help. And BOTH of you do this! Now I have a new phrase to help you learn: "Mommy, please help me!" {So note to blog readers: if my children look at you urgently and say "apple sauce," they don't want apple sauce! They want help with something!}
T grabs the corner of her blanket...
- The songs you sing are becoming more recognizable.
... and improvises a napkin! She is turning out to be the neat freak of the two of them.
- Books are still your favorites, but you've started to get burnt out on books you hear too many times! That said, it's a fine line -- you love getting to the point with a book where you know it well enough to practically read it to us. And you do try to do that, even with the ones you won't let us read to you anymore! (My personal favorite is listening to Evie attempt to read "Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus," which she has renamed "No More Bus!")
E's messy, she has yogurt all over her face, she knows it, and she doesn't care. Total opposites!
- You love the animals at the zoo!
Teddy bear picnic
- You love telling us you love us.
E's not above using her dress like a little plate
- You're always concerned with the other one: where she is, what she's doing. If I pour a cup of water for each of them, T will point to E's and say "Evie's cup." If she can reach it, she'll take it to Evie.
Riding around on her car with her Daddy
- There's so much more that you're saying and doing, but I have a feeling that this blog post will be plenty long by the time I get through with all these pictures!
Tamsie was loving piling all the Tupperware on her Daddy's head, and he was having fun too, until....
E came along and slammed the door on his head! Poor guy! I just happened to snap the picture at the perfect time to capture this hilarious face, though!
E points to the moon in one of her favorite books, which just so happens to have been a gift from their Aunt Beth, who recorded the story for them.

Roses for Mother's Day! This year I asked for the girls' newborn pictures from the hospital for my Mother's Day gift. I know it sounds ridiculous that they're this old and we still don't have their newborn pics, but between the generalized chaos of the time surrounding their birth and the outlandish expenses we faced afterward, we just never had the opportunity to order any. Thankfully that will no longer be the case! In the picture below, E is sniffing the roses. I'm always working hard to increase her familiarity with roses, since her middle name is Rose. :)

Geese and baby geese out back. The girls love running around the deck screaming, "BABY GEESE!" I'm sure it's a big hit with the neighbors. ;)

I know this has nothing to do with the girls' 19-month birthday, but I'm 10% too lazy to do a second post right now. Our discipleship group had the privilege of sharing brunch at the home of a precious elderly lady who taught on the Tabernacle for 30 years and constructed this incredible replica. I wish I had taken more pictures! It was fascinating and really helped bring to life what we've been studying.

The detail was astounding. 

Here's E and the book from Aunt Beth. She's also wearing that yellow bow she picks out every day and a darling new outfit from her YaYa! 

T and the book from Aunt Beth. She's also wearing her fabulous new outfit from YaYa!


T's outfit has dogs all over, since she is very much obsessed with anything canine. 

At the zoo this past weekend, admiring the sea lions? Is that what these things are? Sadly, my zoology skills are nonexistent escape me...
Chris, girls, books. Love.
Girls, you're the best. Not a day goes by that I don't hold you tight and thank the Lord for sending you to our family. Just spending time with you and watching you grow is the most rewarding thing I've ever done, and I'm so grateful to be able to invest in you full-time.

Love always,
Mommy

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

The National Lampoon's Tennessee Vacation

Sunday we arrived back from a trip that was lots of fun, but not without many Griswold elements! On the whole, however, it was a big success. The girls were fabulous sports, and we all had a wonderful time together as a family.

Here is Tamsie the weekend we were all sick, hanging out in a onesie because she made a mess of whatever outfit I had her in. I promise she was smiling right before I took this, but then she decided she didn't want to be still for a picture after all. Regardless, it's typical of a riled-up Tamsie face currently, so I'm leaving it in. :)

Meanwhile, Evie was all too eager to cheese for the camera. It's really hard to manage a picture of her these days when she's not making The Face! 

Crackers! One of their favorite toys is a cracker box that came with their grocery cart (easily amused, y'all), so they are kind of obsessed with actual crackers right now.

Evie models how to eat a cracker while wearing the bow she picks out EVERY TIME I let her pick out a bow. Apparently yellow is the new pink.

Tamsie out to eat before our trip. It is so terribly inconvenient to do dishes before you leave town, you know!
First of all, here are the reasons why we are now referring to this vacation as National Lampoon-worthy:
1) First we intended to go to South Carolina. It didn't work out, since we were all sick, so that entire leg of the trip was canceled.
2) When we arrived at our hotel in Chattanooga, the staff could not find our reservation, and everything within a 50-mile radius was sold out since it was graduation weekend at a huge university. After much effort on her part and a lot of panicking on ours, the receptionist miraculously found us a room at another hotel, which was luckily right around the corner -- so we weren't left sleeping on the sidewalk.
Friday night, once the hotel situation was straightened out, we met up with Mrs. DeeDee, Mr. Herbie, Alex and Noah for dinner at the restaurant where Alex works. Sadly, this is the only picture I was able to get (talk about BUSY -- keeping up with two 18-month olds, feeding them and feeding myself leaves little time for picture-taking!), but what a picture it is! Tamsie was crazy about Uncle Noah all weekend. She's always crazy about Uncle Noah, but this weekend she took it to a whole new level!
3) WE MISSED SEEING ALEX GRADUATE. This was the most unfortunate Griswold-ish thing of all, but it was just a total slip-up. Alex, being very generous, told us not to come until later on in the ceremony since he knew it would be hard to keep T and E entertained the whole time, and then the ceremony wound up ending way before he had anticipated. Alex had made brunch reservations for all of us at 2, and by 12 we didn't have anything scheduled to do, so we took the girls to the Creative Discovery Museum, where they ran around and had a ton of fun. (Once again, pictures are sorely lacking, since it was two of us trying to keep up with two of them in public -- and they are quite literally all over the place and trying to make a grand escape every chance they get!)
Since both were semi-stationary in this car at the museum, I tried to snap a few pictures. Evie's in the back (with the yellow bow, of course), and Tamsie's attempting to climb out from the front. Notice how wonkified their bows are -- they were playing very hard!

Now Chris is having to keep Evie from flopping out the side of the car. (Next time you see him you should compliment him on his lovely pink armband.) (It's the one the museum gave us -- he would never wear such a thing by choice!)

They stayed still about one second -- which is when I snapped this one! :) You can tell they're totally plotting their next act of mischief though!
Brunch was lots of fun, although there is no photographic evidence of it. Jennifer and Tyler were in town by then, so Chris and all his siblings were together again! :) Mr. Herbie and Mrs. DeeDee graciously treated us all to our meals, which were outstanding!
After lunch, Alex came to the van to say goodbye to the girls. Here he is with Evie. We're so, SO proud of the new UT Chattanooga alum!

If you've ever wondered why they call them the Smokey Mountains, here you go!
By the way, if you don't have kids and you ever happen to see a parent out in the rain with a small child who is smiling blissfully and staying dry under an umbrella or under a canopy in a stroller, I want you to stop for a moment and appreciate all the parent did to get everyone successfully to that point. It's not easy getting kids out and keeping them dry in the rain! However, I really can't complain. The rain provided nice white noise so the girls could fall asleep and stay asleep in the car, and it also gave them a chance to wear their cute little rain coats they never get to wear since I rarely get them out in the rain by choice! :)
4) After brunch, during the girls' typical post-lunch naptime, we headed to Nashville to stay a night in the Opryland Hotel. When we arrived, we headed to our room -- which was a conference-room type thing that didn't even have a bed -- totally not the suite we had requested! After a good bit of confusion and hijinks and crying from T and E (who were now separated from their snack food and milk until we had a room the bell man could deliver it to), the management finally found us just the type of room we had reserved, and it was fabulous and very much worth the effort it took to secure it.
In the original room, Evie found this stool and kept talking about petting it! Ha! I guess it was furry!

Tamsie knows a good thing when she sees it. Christie Cookies in Opryland is amazing and is always a highlight of our stays there!

The girls' favorite feature of Opryland is the fish. Tamsie would randomly look at us and say, "Come here, fishy fishy!" which meant "Please take me to see the fish now!"

Talking about the fishies together

I know it's hard to see, but part of this hillside was painted with the TDOT logo. Not really sure why, but you know TDOT is one of T's many nicknames, so I had to try to get it!
Even though the trip turned out a lot different than we were expecting going into it, it wound up being wonderful, and everything worked out just fine. Spending time with Chris and the girls and his family was glorious, even if a lot of work and planning went into it all!

Also, I realized Saturday that it had been exactly two years since I received the news that I was having twins. I don't know if you remember or even know this part of the story, but when I went to the doctor that day, I was dreadfully afraid I would be told I was miscarrying. I showed up at church the Sunday morning leading up to the week of the appointment after having cried all morning, so I felt like a huge hypocrite sitting through prayer request time and acting like everything was OK when I was so scared it wasn't. I wound up announcing to the class that I was expecting, but that I feared something was terribly wrong. Chris and I begged for their prayers for us and the baby -- because who knew there were two?! Over this past weekend, I went back and found this message I sent out to the girls in my Sunday School class as soon as I was able to think straight after getting back from the doctor's office:

I'm sure I'm leaving people out, so please feel free to pass this along to anyone I'm missing!! So here is the deal: I'm having TWINS!!!!!! I know, what in the world?!?!? We got to see their heartbeats today. Everything is fine... except they did find a subcutaneous hemorrhage(?) around one of the twins... which they said happens sometimes and is often (usually?) fine. But regardless, they said the whole thing is rather risky, and so they will need me to come in for an ultrasound and a check-up each week. (At least I get to see those babies each week as they grow!) So please do keep those prayers coming!! Of course I was wanting an all-clear, but the doctor did say that everything is fine now; she just wants to keep an eye on things for the next several weeks. But the good news is that those two tiny hearts are beating strong, and everything seems great so far, minus that! THANK YOU SOOOOOO much for all the prayers. I really don't know how I would make it without them during this crazy stressful time! I love all of you and can't wait to see you Sunday!!!

Reading this gives me chills! God answered all of those prayers and many more. Once again, Ephesians 3:20 and 21 come to mind. He has proven with these girls that He is fully able to do "far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us." When I was afraid something was wrong, I was actually pregnant all the while with two healthy little twin girls! I am just so thankful beyond words. I know I say that a lot on here, but I will never forget the palpable fear I had going in to the doctor's office that day, nor the overflowing joy when the nurse found one heartbeat -- and then a second! Talk about a defining moment! :)

Well, the girls are in their room right now. They've woken up, and now they're calling me, so I'd better go see what they want to do now! Hope everyone's having a marvelous week so far!