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Thursday, June 14, 2012

4 Years Ago Today...

... I married the sweetest, most precious, most amazing man ever!!





Happy anniversary to my dear husband! For the past few years I've known that you are the best husband I could ever imagine, and this past year I've also been blessed to watch you become an amazing dad too! My love for you grows every day. You are a constant reminder in my life that "every good and perfect gift is from above" (James 1:17). I love you so very much.

Happy 8-Month Birthday, T&E!!!

Evie, that's you in the pink bow, and Tamsie, you're in the white bow! :) You are posing with your NICU bear, of course!
Dear Tamsie and Evangelyn, 

First of all, let me start by apologizing for the quality of your 8-month pictures. Usually I have access to my digital camera for such momentous pictures, but alas... it failed to make it to Memphis in its entirety. Thus, iPhone photos will have to suffice. Plus, it's no secret that I'm no Melissa McMasters when it comes to photography. (But speaking of Meli Mac, she took this fabulous picture of you earlier this month:)
Tamsie on the left, Evie on the right
Now, as for your lack of cooperation with me in posing for these pics... you have only yourselves to blame for that! ;) Oh right, and the fact that you're only 8 months old, or 5.5 months adjusted age since you're preemies. 

Earlier this week, Evie was practicing sitting up while holding onto Tamsie's bouncy seat for balance, and Tamsie kept flipping around to look at her and giggle. Somehow I got the attention of both of them and snapped this pic.
Before you came into my life, I would have been the first to admit that I was certainly no baby-kinda person. I didn't know what to do with babies or how to talk to them or entertain them. I rarely babysat anyone under the age of 3 back in my babysitting days. In fact, I pretty much kept my distance from babies altogether, for fear I might break them or something. But when I found out about you, it was totally different. I was smitten from the start, and I have been crazy obsessed with each phase of your lives... as this blog clearly attests. That said, each month with you gets more fun than the month before, as you become exponentially more alert and aware of everything around you all the time. So as much fun as previous months have been, this past month has them all beat.

For starters, you constantly crack me up. For example, yesterday, Tamsie, you were saying "ooooo" and making this face:
 I would say it back to you and make the same face, and you thought it was so funny:
 ... so you did it again and again and again!! We were both squealing with laughter! :)
 In addition to cracking me up, you crack each other up all the time. Each morning, the first time you see each other, your faces light up and you usually start laughing. Of course, you find ways to annoy each other, as seen in the picture below, but on the whole you enjoy each other's company. When you're not right next to each other, you look around to see where the other one is and what she's doing. You like keeping tabs on each other.

Tamsie going after Evie's nose. Nothing new here.
 You're still itty bitty. On your 8-month birthday Tuesday morning, I weighed both of you, and Evie was 13 lbs 4 oz, and Tamsie was 13 lbs 4.5 oz. So right now Tamsie is back in the lead, but you flip-flop all the time. You're wearing primarily 3- or 6- month clothes, although Tamsie did rock a 0-3 month outfit this morning (until you spat up all over it... YEP, that's still happening). The dresses you're wearing in these pictures are size 3 months, you petite little things. You wear size 2 diapers still and probably will for quite some time. Just based on your size, everyone is still shocked when they ask how old you are and I tell them 8 months. BUT, based on how you're acting, everyone is shocked that you came so early. We met with a developmental specialist earlier this week who basically said, "I kind of want you to show me something to prove that they came at 29 weeks, because they are SO not acting like they did!" Y'all are brilliant. What can I say?! I'm just incredibly thankful.
Make yourselves at home!
 You're taking breastmilk and Neosure every four hours or so and taking solids a couple of times a day: apples, sweet potatoes, pears, peaches, peas, squash, carrots, and, as of today, prunes. We have introduced each food for four days before introducing something new -- veggies first, then fruits. So far, both of you have loved everything, with two possible exceptions: Evie's verdict is still out regarding apple juice and bananas, of all things! When you're really enjoying your food, both of you say, "Mmmmm!"
I had to keep sitting up my two squirmy worms for the pictures today! They were all over the place!
Both of you went BACK on Prevacid this month.... words really can't describe our shared hatred of reflux at this point in the game. Bottle feedings can either be a breeze or a nightmare right now. Tamsie, you have also graduated to Bactrim from Amoxicillin now that you're bigger, to keep your kidneys from getting infected. Both of you still take vitamins -- against your (rather strong) wills, I might add!

In this picture, Evie decided to do what she could to be the show pony for once. You see, back in ultrasound days, Tamsie was always shoving in front of Evie at picture time -- and I do mean always. So now Evie likes to steal the show whenever she can!
 You couldn't possibly love your Wubbanubs any more than you do. In the middle of the night when you cry, no other pacifiers will ultimately get you back to sleep. Only the Wubbanubs will do! And you have preferences, too: the dog and the lamb belong to Tamsie, while Evie prefers the giraffe and the duck. I think you've become as much attached (pun unintended) to the stuffed animals as you have to the pacis that are attached to them!
Transitioning to the belly to take up more of the picture space...
 Speaking of that, you're sleeping very well these days, although it's a rare night when we don't hear a peep out of either of you. Typically we are woken up two or three times by someone, but when we give the girl in question her Wubbanub, all is once again well in our little world, because you quickly go right back to sleep. However, you have recently learned to toss these beloved Wubbanubs across the room - which results in more crying until they are replaced and all is well again.
All eyes on Evie!
 You love Sophie, your teething rings, your exersaucer, your play mat, and each other (d'awww). You reach for and play with all of your toys right now with such vigor and excitement. You also love books, particularly Goodnight Moon, which you hear me read to you every night before bed. You have it memorized just as much as I do, because if you're ever upset, all I have to do is say, "In the great green room" - and you stop crying immediately. Then you give me a big smile! :)
Tamsie interrupts Evie's shining moment in front of the camera by sticking her foot in Evie's face!
 You are trying desperately to crawl, and you are getting so close! By rolling and scooting and turning around, you get pretty much anywhere you want to go.
Bow in the face. It's getting to be really hard for me to keep the bows on your heads and out of your mouths!
You are both sitting for about 20 seconds or so unassisted -- before you collapse!
Evie squirms out of the headband, while Tamsie appears to squirm away from Evie.
 Right now you scare your mama by attempting to squirm our of such things as Nap Nannies and bouncy seats.
That face! Evie is clearly over picture time and done being the show pony at this point.
 You also squirm like crazy while I try to change your clothes and your diapers. Both of you reach for anything you can get your hands on -- including such fascinating objects as bags of diapers and boxes of wipes. Basically you do anything other than sit still so I can change you! :)
Silly girls!
Evie, you now have a tooth and a half, and Tamsie, you're finally getting the top of your first tooth.
They love to show off their bellies. 
You girls are such huge blessings in our lives. We love you so very much, and it's fabulous watching you grow! I was just telling some friends the other day that before you came along, I had no idea how thrilling it would be to watch you meet each new milestone. It truly is amazing!
Feet in the air, feet in the air!
 Happy 8 months, my little loves! :)
Aaaand we're done. E's bow is gone, and T just wants out of the chair at this point.
Love,
Mommy

Monday, June 11, 2012

All in a Week's Work

Because I'm becoming increasingly overdue in publishing my good old iPhone pics, today's update will consist entirely of pictures and captions from the past week. Scroll away!
Carissa, Roy, and Cliff have graciously loaned us Cliff's swing to use during our stay at my parents' house. Here, Tamsie and Sir Wubs-a-Lot the Red Dog (who was given a name by none other than Carissa herself) express their appreciation by cuddling up together and taking a snooze. 
Evie is sitting up these days, with a little help from her arms!

... and she is one proud baby! And I, of course, am one proud mama - although I was a bit nervous taking this picture for fear she might fall over!

Whenever she's in her exersaucer, it's only a matter of time before she flashes her long, squiggly Evie smile. I love it!!

Evie yet again, hanging out with her Grandma. Grandma just so happens to be wearing one of Evie's favorite shirts in this photo!

Tamsie loves to bite toes... usually her own, but her doll's will do in a pinch!

Friday, my sweet mother-in-law was in town from Mississippi, so she came and spent the day with us.  She was able to see what a day in the life of almost-8-month-old twins looks like, and I loved getting to spend time with her too!

Catching Tamsie in the act of smiling, while Evie reaches out to her. The girls are constantly interacting with each other these days, as seen here, and it's so fun to watch!

Aaaand Evie's ready to go back to YaYa now! T's a little too out-of-control for her to handle!

YaYa and her grand-girls

Grandma and her grand-girls, who are linking arms! Evie has a tooth now and is working on getting another one, and Tamsie is desperately trying to catch up with her. Thus, hands are in mouths more than ever, and Evie is so drooly she requires a bib sometimes!

Linking arms and supporting each other during these tough teething days

Sweet Evie-girl smile!

E's smile is gone, but I love their faces here. They kinda look like they're begging for ice cream... or, in their case, apple sauce, since it seems to be their favorite so far!

Saturday, Jennifer took her mama to go see Mamma Mia at the Orpheum, and all of us went to J's downtown apartment to hang out before the show. The girls love spending time with their YaYa and Aunt Jennifer!

Later on Saturday I was actually able to go shopping while waiting for an appointment - something I very much need to do since pretty much all the warm-weather clothes I bought last year were maternity clothes. I had to take this picture because I am completely unable to shop alone, without a friend's opinions! ARGH! Is it a yay or a nay?

Saturday night we went to the Germantown Charity Horse Show with Carissa, Roy, and Cliff. Here are three babies in a row: Evangelyn, Tamsie, and Cliff. Had we been able to stay longer, I'm pretty sure Carissa and I would have at least attempted to convince people they were triplets! ;)

Evie had other plans, though. I think she wanted to convince everyone that she and Cliff were a couple.

Playing hard-to-get

He can't handle her beauty, so he had to look away.

Going for his face...

... and she got it!

Now she's holding on to his outfit. She's not letting this one get away!

The feeling is mutual. She made him giggle.

He basically couldn't contain himself.

It was love at first sight! ;) (Yes, we are fully aware they will be nauseated by this sort of thing before too long. I try to rein it in, but this time I couldn't resist!)

Yesterday, the girls looked so cute in their little dresses they wore to church (from YaYa, by the way) that I tried to get a decent picture of them together at Grandma's house. Alas. Instead, I got a reminder of how tricky it is to get a good picture of them both! 
Tamsie was not feeling it.

And when she finally settled down (briefly), Evie wasn't feeling it.

Unfortunately, this is probably the happiest they were able to get. To their credit, it was very much lunchtime and they knew it!

Sisters.

We gave T her wubbanub, thinking it might help.

It didn't.

Evie and me

Tamsie and me... you take a picture with one, you've gotta take a picture with the other, even if she is not happy!

Sweet times with Great-Grandma and Evie

I love watching them interact! My Grandma is a natural, of course!

This is one happy mama because:
A. she's had several nights of good sleep in a row!
B. her girls have been eating well (for them) lately!
C. she's had a great time with family over the weekend!
D. all of the above! :)

Tamsie couldn't get enough of Chris's glass at dinner last night.
That's all for now! Chris will soon be doing a guest post on the crazy things people say to twin parents out in public, so stay tuned! ;)