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Saturday, May 12, 2012

Happy 7-Month Birthday, T and E!!!

Evie on the left and Tamsie on the right, with the bear they posed with in their NICU pictures
Dear Tamsie and Evangelyn,

Today you are seven months old! I can hardly believe how quickly the time has flown by! You two are so much fun, and every day with you is a new adventure. Here are some highlights of what you're up to these days:
Tamsie looks like she's trying to convince Evie of something here
* We continue to see more and more of your unique personalities each day. You laugh all the time at all kinds of things, often catching us off guard. What one of you laughs at may not be what the other laughs at, but a lot of times you do laugh at the same things. You're also playing together more and more. Sometimes you'll put your hands on each other's faces and look at each other in wonder. You also love to grab each other's feet!
Speaking of feet, Evie just found hers this week and has been loving to play with them!
* When you discover a new trick, you want to practice all the time! Like now that you know how to roll from your back to your belly, I have to keep a close eye on you because any time I put you down, you want to try it out! Both of you are also trying to sleep on your bellies at night, which scares me because of SIDS. And yes, I know that if you're putting yourself in that position, it's pretty safe - but that sure didn't keep me from going in your room to check on you about 100 times the first night you started trying it out. The only way I finally got to sleep was to remind myself that we have movement sensor monitors, and I reasoned that if the alarm isn't going off, you must be doing just fine! YES, I'm a first-time mom and it totally shows!
Chris was trying to get them to laugh, but they had just woken up from a nap and were very much acting like it!
* You are both learning to crawl, although Evie is currently a little better at crawling than Tamsie is. You also rely on rolling around to get where you want to go, and you love to practice sitting and standing. Consequently, you are rapidly outgrowing your bouncy seats and Bumbo seats, because you are always trying to roll or pop out of them!
Here's an outtake I had to include: Tamsie pinching poor Evie's nose!
* You are playing with your toys on a much more advanced level than you were last month. You've learned to pull things that are meant to be pulled and rattle things that are meant to make noise, and you're getting REALLY excited whenever I show you a toy you haven't seen in a while... and by "a while" I mean anything longer than five minutes! :) Ha!
You make the funniest little faces!
* You are constantly trying out new sounds, and some of them are starting to sound more and more like actual words. Both of you also say, "Pfffffttt!!" ALL the time. Evie started saying it first, and you both go about it a little differently, but it's hilarious!
Tamsie once again appears to be having fun at Evie's expense!
 * You study our faces so closely when we talk to you and read you stories. Sometimes when I read, you're more interested in watching my face than in looking at the book! You also love meeting new people, and you especially love it when random people talk to you when we're out and about. (You generally love it a lot more than your mom and dad do! haha!)
Two girls = drama! Chris had to come to the rescue.
 * You actually enjoy getting dressed and helping us out as we dress you. You put your arms through the sleeves and your legs into your pants very easily, and you even roll over for me on command so I can button the backs of your outfits!
This is Tamsie's famous "How could you?!" face. Evie is unfazed.
* You started solids this month, and you seem to really enjoy them - especially sweet potatoes! You quickly learned how to open your mouths for a bite. This has been one bright spot in your feeding times, as you have generally been very difficult to bottle-feed this month. Sometimes both of you have even been impossible to feed, and your poor mom has had to go to a different room away from you and just cry. We think it's related to a feeding aversion that is pretty common among preemies who had to be intubated and who had to have feeding tubes at some point early on, but we really do wish it would go away. Our doctor should be making an appointment for us to go see a speech pathologist about this soon, but it can't come soon enough.
Evangelyn Rose
* You are back on milk and Neosure again. I'm not even going to say how much you're actually taking - it is too, too depressing for me! Tamsie weighs 12 lbs 3 oz, and Evie is 12 lbs 3.5 oz. We went to see your old NICU nurses this week, which was so much fun, and they were impressed at how Evie has caught up with Tamsie so well and so quickly!
My big old Evie girl! 
 * You started out the month on a spree of waking up constantly overnight. Thank heavens you seem to be past that again, and you are once again sleeping very well! We find that when you nap well during the day, you're more likely to sleep well at night.
Tamsie Pearl, trying to play with her headband. She's no longer allowed to go around in them unless I'm keeping a close eye on her, because she loves to play with them and bite them!
 * Your hands are always in your mouths, but we're still waiting on your first teeth to break through!
Tamsie looks like she's plotting something pretty intense... like how to get Grandma to send her a treat! ;)
 * You are enjoying bath time again and loving to splash!

You also love sticking your arms and legs out of your crib, which Tamsie demonstrates here. Have I mentioned how sad I am that bumpers are now considered unsafe?! I LOVE the bumpers we have but am scared to use them!

Tamsie


Evie again... I seriously had a hard time limiting the cute pictures! 
Tamsie eyeing her bear suspiciously

Every couple of weeks, we get the girls a new book, so that their library is always growing. They absolutely love the book they picked out this time!
And I love that Tamsie is attempting to eat it (if only they were this eager about actual food), and I also love Evie's face here!
They can't get enough of it!

When one of them plays with it, the other wants in on the fun!
Tamsie waiting to get her renal ultrasound and rockin' her awesome hospital anklet. She had her kidney check-up and we found out that nothing has changed at all, for better or worse. They're going to keep checking up on her as we go along, and she's staying on antibiotics for now.
Evie took time out of her busy day to come and provide support for her sister during her tests.
Tamsie immediately went to work crinkling and tearing up the paper on the exam table at the doctor's office! We think she loved the noise it made.
Girls, as always, your dad and I love you so very much, and we can't wait to see what this next month brings! We thank God every day that He chose us to be your parents, and we hope we can model Christ's love for you every single day!

Love,
Mom

Friday, May 11, 2012

My Little Twincesses

If you're coming over from Kelly's blog, welcome! My blog is still pretty new, so here's my story really quick: On October 12 last year, my husband Chris and I became parents to two beautiful identical twin girls, Tamsie Pearl and Evangelyn Rose. I wasn't supposed to have them until December 24, but due to a rapid onset of Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome, they made their debut super early.
Us at my Grandma's house, in a somewhat sleep-deprived state!
The first eight weeks of their lives revolved around NICU life. Now that they're home, they're healthy and happy - but life is certainly not without its struggles! Through it all, I'm constantly reminded of how profoundly blessed I am to have them in my life, and I pray every day that God will fashion me to be the Mom these girls need me to be. You also need to understand I knew nothing whatsoever about babies before having them, so the learning curve is high!
Evie on the left and Tamsie on the right - both of these photos taken by Melissa McMasters
Here is the story of their birth, in several parts:
Part 1: The BABIES are OK!!
Part 2: The First Trimester
Part 3: Second Trimester and Feeling "Swell"
Part 4: Third Trimester, Ready or Not - Emphasis on Not!!
Part 5: And Now, the Rest of the Story!
Two years ago, Chris and I moved from Memphis to Louisville to attend The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. We have absolutely loved our time here, but things are certainly hard with no family nearby! Thank goodness God's grace is sufficient to get us through each day.
Have fun looking around the blog! :)

Monday, May 7, 2012

Derby Dolls

Everyone knows that Louisville is the place to be the first weekend in May, and so we tried to live it up as much as possible with twins in tow! Here's a glimpse of what we've been up to:
Last week I put Tamsie on the floor on her back, as I often do, while I turned around to get a new outfit from her drawer. When I turned back around, she was on her belly! She's been flipping from belly to back for a while now, but this was a first! When I took this picture, I had put her down on her back, left the room, and come back to find this! After a day of trying and watching Tamsie flip, Evie started flipping from back to belly too!

Now that Evie has mastered this new skill, she wants to roll onto her belly everywhere - even in her stroller at Meijer! Another skill she has mastered is saying, "Pfffffft!!" all the time. It's really funny when you're trying to have a serious conversation and you keep hearing "Pffffffftttt!!!" in the background at random intervals!

Playtime with T&E and their indestructible Frere Jacques book. I had spread toys all over the floor, and they were having fun working the room and going from one toy to another.

Sometimes they went for the same toy. This sibling stuff I've always heard of must already be starting!

Tamsie successfully grabbed it away from Evie.  Poor Evester!

"So we rolled onto our bellies. What's the big deal?!"

Tamsie grabs Evie's leg...

... and doesn't let go.

Now an arm...

Getting closer to Evie....

Made it! Sister love!

Playing with the Peekaboo Monkey

Engaging conversation, as always

We took them downtown on Friday night, right in the middle of post-Oaks celebrations. They stole the show in their pink dresses and fascinators! We took this picture at the Brown Hotel, home of the Hot Brown.

On Saturday, the recurring question of the day was, "OK, so why didn't we go to the Derby back when we still could?!" So during the peak of the action, we drove past Churchill Downs and rolled down the windows to hear the excitement. You can see the Twin Spires in the middle of this picture. Also, the dots in the sky were blimps and planes with banners flying above the racetrack. 

Saturday night the girls ate solid food for the first time. Here,  Evie is polishing off some carrots.

The horse in Westport Village was decked out in roses in honor of the Derby.

Tamsie on her blanket

Picture time in their tutu dresses!

Linking arms

Watching their Dad dangling one of their toys

Tamsie was so sleepy! I had just woken her up right before we took these.

Strong babies!

They may be Kentucky girls, but they heart the NY outfits Aunt Jennifer got for them on her trip this past fall!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

15 Ways My Life Has Changed Since Becoming a Mom

I can't really quantify how my life has changed since having the girls. It pretty much resembles nothing of my life pre-T&E. However, I thought it would be fun to think of 15 specific ways it has changed since October 12, 2011, and I'm also including pictures from the rest of our weekend in Memphis!
Melissa took this gorgeous picture of the girls in their Easter dresses at their Grandma's request. (Evie on the left, Tamsie on the right, for those keeping track).
1. I can carry on semi-intelligent conversations with other moms on such topics as crying it out vs. not, NICU life, diapers that work vs. those that don't, swaddling, daytime activities, and Sophie la Girafe.

Visiting my mom at work on Friday
 2. I now know the difference between a crib and a cradle. YES!!

Playtime at Grandma and Grandpa's! That's my mom's old baby blanket they're playing on.
 3. I can also change diapers now. DOUBLE YES!! (I'd say I'm pretty good at it too. I've had lots of practice in the last 6.5 months, after all!)

Funny faces! I'm surprised Evie isn't chewing on her bow in this picture. 
4. I have learned to appreciate the value of a good solid three hours of uninterrupted sleep.

Laughing!
5. I have also gained a greater appreciation of Chris's abilities to seek out and find free stuff and other good deals. The man has crazy good skills in this area!

Evie taking a nap in Grandma's arms means that Grandma's not going anywhere for a while! She's stuck until Evie wakes up again!
 6. I can dress and undress a squirmy baby. These processes used to mystify me.

YaYa and Tamsie, who is being photographed by her Uncle Noah while chewing on a napkin at Sekisui. She's a regular celebrity these days.
 7. "Sleeping in" means sleeping til 8:30 at the latest. I can also be wide awake at 4 am if the situation calls for it.
Tamsie and Herbie
 8. Piggybacking on my last point, coffee has become as essential as water to daily survival. In fact, I think I could use another cup to finish out my last 7 points....

YaYa and Tamsie, who is wearing her cute I Heart Shoes top that Jennifer W. gave her. Right now, it's OK when she decimates an outfit, because that just means we get to dress her up in another cute one! Check out those cute monogrammed shoes from her YaYa and Herbie!
 9. I have memorized the words to such books as Hop on Pop, One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish, Goodnight Moon and Pat the Bunny.

Uncle Noah and Tamsie, who has the tag from her wubbanub in her face, in case you're curious
10. I don't leave the house to go to work anymore, but my job is more demanding (and rewarding) than ever. I genuinely feel like this is the job I was created for!

Gigi and Evie
11. I have gained an even greater realization of how selfish I can be - and an even greater desire to overcome it.

Gigi and Tamsie
12. I've said "I'll be right back - let me go get your sister!" more times than I can count. Per day.

Tamsie is our budding hairstylist, as she demonstrates on Grandpa.
13. I've become one of those moms on Facebook who's probably guilty of photo-bombing your homepage with cute baby pics. I'm sorry. I can't help myself. They're cute!!

The girls and their Grandma. Tamsie was one tired goat when we took this picture!
14. I've been astonished at how much love I can have for two tiny little babies.

Evie on the way back to Louisville
15. I've never felt more blessed in my life! :)